Valentines day...

Year in ...Year out
it appears theres a template for valentines day...
..teddy bears...jewellry...choclate...flowers...cakes...dinner maybe..

..this can get boring...especially for couples who've been together for years..

All this post is about is helping u find different ...more creative ways to spend this special day...in an effort to make it as memorable as possible...

First u can still give these gifts..but to switch it up...u can stagger them...lead up to the day..building up anticipation...or even on the day..u can give them to her all through the day...at the end of the day culminating in the biggest gift of them all...U.

You can also give each gift with a little card that explains the significance of the gift...
For example...
Choclates...

"..as each one melts on ur lips....
i want u to realize that they could never hope to rival the sweetness of ur kiss"

..or something like that..

It doesnt have to be extra poetic...as long as its sincere..

Another idea is this...men...u could have a car pick her up from work..take her to her house..or friends house..where she can shower and change..and then take her somewhere to meet u..
for dinner...
..or a hotel room..

..if ure making plans for her...leading to the day...text her to give her instructions on what to do...and shes not allowed to ask any questions...
most women love this...cus it shows ure taking charge ..and ure making plans for her...

Both of u can prepare coupons that you will throw in a box...these will be little notes describing a special treat that u will perform on them if they pick it...
in the hotel room...after dinner..u shake the box...and u get to pick...her first...and she picks one initially..and whatever she picks u have to do...this is a chance for u to get really naughty and explore each others freaky sides...especially if ur partner is the shy type..

They could be
- a sexy backrub
- a lapdance
- a certain amount of push-ups
- a tongue massage..(she gets to pick where)
- u wear a costume
-she gets to watch u jerk-off(and vice-versa)
-watching a dirty movie...and u choose a scene she enacts

stuff like that.

These are just some initial ideas..'ll do another post when i get back in.

Sincerely yours...

TheChocl8Adonis.